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rain, rain, go away!

thursday, 6/27/2004

We've been having rain pretty much every day now for the past two or three weeks. In fact, it is raining outside as I write, looking out of my third floor patio door. Someone said they heard all the animals were lining up in pairs. I had hoped M and I might spend some time at the beach this weekend during her visit,  but it was not to be. On the plus side, everything is wonderfully green...

We ended up doing what many others did and spent our time shopping in the malls and taking in a movie. With 24 movies to choose from, we decided to see the Michael Moore film, Fahrenheit 9/11. Moore definitely is no fan of our current president, so it wasn't a big surprise what the movie would be like. This was the first movie I've seen in a long time where the audience applauded at the end, though. Most of the people in the theater were probably of a similar mind politically, so the reaction was no doubt common in theaters elsewhere. Four more months and we'll see if the currrent president keeps his job or gets the boot. I don't think I've seen this much passion about an election since the Viet Nam War era.

I'm gradually getting all my modern  gadgets working. It took many phone calls to get Sprint to make my DSL work. Their customer service phone answerers were all really nice, but apparently they didn't have much to do with repairing equipment. It's been working for several days now, so I'm keeping my fingers crossed. They promised to credit my first month for free, which is a good thing considering all the add on fees.  I'm currently looking for good computer speakers so I can listen to my music collection, which is stored digitally on my laptop. In the meantime, I have a television, with 70 channels of free cable that are mostly not worth watching.

When it stops raining I plan to spend most of my time out and about...

karma

thursday, 6/17/2004

Many years ago, when I was a freshman in college (yes, I can still remember back that far), I worked at a McDonald's restaurant cooking and selling burgers nights and weekends.  I was making the amazing sum of $1.60 per hour.  Needless to say, money was tight.

Late one night, near closing time, I was asked to police the parking lot. Amongst the cups and wrappers people had thrown on the pavement rather than putting them in a trash can a few steps away, I saw an overstuffed man's wallet. I picked it up and opened it. Inside, I found several hundred dollars in cash and a couple of checks for similar amounts, not yet cashed.  I briefly thought, "Wow, that's as much as I make in several months." But I knew what to do; I found a phone number in the wallet and called it next day, leaving the wallet with the manager at the restaurant  so he could pick it up. 

I asked later how the man had responded to getting his wallet back, but the manager didn't say much beyond "He was glad to have it back."  I worried a little about that "delivery" later when the manager was fired for stealing from the store.  Surely he gave the wallet back to the man...

Today, I stopped in at a Quizno's for lunch, and it wasn't until I had got home from work that I realized I didn't have my wallet. I instantly knew where I must have left it, since I hadn't used it since lunch. I was thinking, it's a roll of the dice whether someone returns it intact or whether I should start canceling credit cards. Literally as I was getting on the internet to look up the number of the restaurant, my cell phone rang.  It was M, saying she had received a call from a guy named Joe at a Quizno's. He had a wallet and called the emergency number inside, and what should he do with it? I got the number, called Joe, and told him I would be there in an hour (it was 40 miles away).

When I got there, Joe and another young guy were there sweeping up, with no customers in the store.  I told them I was the one who had called about the wallet.  Joe pulled it out from under the counter, unzipped it, and checked my driver's license picture. Satisfied, he gave it to me.  I opened it, and said "I want to thank you guys for doing the right thing. You didn't have to." Then I pulled a $50 bill from the wallet and put it on the counter as I said, "And I want you to have a little something for your honesty." 

They both smiled.  Joe said, "Thank you, ma'am." The other guy said, "You have yourself a wonderful day." And I said, "I already have."

Young people take a lot of heat from adults for their behaviors sometimes. But these two were not only working, they had already developed the strength of character many adults never do. They did the right thing, with nobody there to encourage them except their own consciences. They will remember this many years later, when they are on the other side of the counter, just as I did.

And they will smile.

on the beach

monday, 6/14/2004

I tried finding bathroom things on Friday evening (keeps me off the street) - towels, rugs, etc., and I bought two giant bags full of stuff at a specialty store after looking first at discount stores. I was just sure that I could force the color scheme to synch with "cinnabar", a sort of burgundy red.  But when I got home and tried it, I knew it wasn't going to work.  I slept on it anyway, but it looked just as bad in the morning. I put all the stuff back in the trunk of the car to exchange when I get a chance.  I may have to find someone with good taste to help me...

After a nice day in Galveston with friends from my tribe on Saturday, I took a long bike ride Sunday morning. Most people (like my downstairs neighbors) enjoy sleeping late on the weekend, but there's nothing finer to me than getting out early in the morning to enjoy the brand new day. I'm happy to report that there are other uncommon people  out there like me (the morning thing I mean :)

After breakfast and a shower, I decided to put beach things in the car, just in case, but went shopping for furniture again. I happened upon this enormous place where they give you stuff to eat and drink as you're walking around, and a nice young saleswoman latched onto me. These were not your typical 3-piece suit sales drones - she had a sense of humor and wasn't pushy. I found a dining table I liked and put on the buy list, but none of the bedroom stuff appealed to my esthetics. Most of it was just gaudy and ostentatious.  One footboard had knobs on the posts so big, I told the sales girl that they were as big as her head.  She conveniently put her head next to one and corrected me, saying, "No, they're bigger." She had to go somewhere while I paid for the dining set, and as I was walking toward the exit, they paged me to come to the front.  She was checking with her boss to see if they could fit the set into the car I was in - youngest daughter's 2-door hatchback.  She said it would work if I put the glass top on top of the car.  I laughed at that - I could see it flying off on the freeway like the beanbag chair did last time we moved furniture through Houston.  Undeterred, she took me over to get a free basketball as a souvenir of my shopping experience.  Furniture shopping was never like this in my little hometown.

Shopped out as I was (my stamina is slowly improving), and with heavy storm clouds gathering, I headed for the beach again, hoping the weather would be better there. It definitely was. Since I was in street clothes, I drove to a little pocket park, where you pay to get in and use the change house. I'm too old to change in the car. I mostly just sunbathed there amongst the others, watching the little kids having fun in the surf. Wow, that brings back some memories. Maybe there will be grandchildren to build sandcastles with some day. I drove home through some awesome thunderstorms, once having to get off the freeway by going the wrong way down an on-ramp to avoid a flooded-out underpass.  There was a magnificent rainbow as I turned onto my street and I felt right with the world.

When I came in from grocery shopping this evening, my downstairs neighbor and her husband were going out.  She smiled and spoke, so I guess our previous encounter is a non-issue.  Then, as I was taking the borrowed bicycle back to the office, rain started pouring, so I ducked under an awning.  Some kids came to an open second story window of a nearby apartment to watch me in my predicament, and when it slacked up a bit, I made a run for it. Just as I did, a woman came out of the building with a raincoat over her head.  I  was most of the way to the office when she caught up to me and said, "I was trying to find an umbrella to come help you, but I never found one, so all I have is this. I thanked her, but by that time I was under cover. 

Yes, its just a matter of time until I make some new friends here. I won't be lonely forever. Things are going to work out.

networking

saturday, 6/12/2004

I thought it would be easy to get my connection to the internet up and running.  Since I've never been able to have anything but dial-up through a phone modem, it seemed like it would be great to have fast access, and then add wireless so I can use my laptop anywhere in the apartment. I knew virtually nothing about setting up an Ethernet network before, so I'm having to learn by doing, which is, I suppose, how I've usually done things.

I managed to get the DSL modem hooked up and working without much effort, but the trouble started when I added the router and wireless access point.  I talked with a tech support guy (in India) about the router first, and he suggested I talk with the DSL provider.  It turned out I needed to reconfigure the modem to be bridged, whatever that means. They had instructions on the internet, and fortunately I can follow written instructions pretty well. 

I still couldn't get the wireless part to work, so I spent an hour the next night talking to another guy in India about it, with no success.  I was tired of fiddling with it, and he was still scratching his head, so we quit for the evening.  The next evening (Wednesday), the DSL signal disappeared, and it has been down ever since. I call once per day to keep them interested in fixing it.

I decided this morning to call them and see if they had a dial up modem number I could use in the meantime, and sure enough, they did. I don't know why they didn't tell me that sooner.  So, after all my efforts, I'm back to the old standby. Simple, but it works.

Last evening, I borrowed a bike from the apartment office (a nice perk) and went riding for a couple of hours. The temperature was pleasant, and it was most enjoyable. There trails through the woods that go all over nearby. I'll do this more often.

While I was cooking breakfast, around 8:30 this morning, I heard a knock at the door, and a tired looking woman in a bathrobe was standing there. She asked if "we" could walk more softly, since they were still trying to sleep below me. I was embarrassed to admit that it was only me sounding like a herd of elephants.  Welcome to apartment life I guess. At least I've met my first neighbor, sort of, though the circumstances could have been better.

I'm headed to Galveston later this morning, hoping to see some friends, and maybe enjoy the day a bit.  Who knows, I may even do some shopping on the way back for some furnishings.

moving in

friday, 6/4/2004

After a nice, relaxing Memorial Day weekend, I returned to the city and the prospect of moving to a place of my own finally. Staying with friends is nice in many ways, but I treasure my own space.

The mattress guys delivered my bed as planned, and the phone guy came at the same time to hook me up for DSL, though they have yet to send me the modem I need. I spent Tuesday and Wednesday evenings shopping for furnishings like cookware, dishes, glasses, flatware, etc., then made a big grocery haul. Not bad for two evenings.

I got a call that there were big storms at home, and I traveled back yesterday evening to find we were still without power, and some big trees had been blown over here and there.  My parents drove their motor home over to sit in the driveway so we could run extension cords to power the refrigerator and freezer for awhile. The power came back on at midnight after we saw power company trucks working at the end of the driveway.  I have to hand it to those folks that take care of power lines for a living; they work under pretty non-ideal conditions, any time of day or night.

My biggest concern was actually that the electric fence around the garden was off, and sure enough, there were deer tracks.  The corn is just ripening, and all it takes is one or two nights for the critters to eat it up.

When I get back on Sunday evening, I should be about ready to resume an ordinary life of working, sleeping and eating.  Nah, I'll have to find something more exciting to do that that!

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